It is true that few scenarios leave a very deep impact within you or sometimes take away a part of you from yourself. But with experience,
I can say that every loss is a hint of forthcoming profit. When you lose your job, you hunt down for a better job, and I see that as a huge profit. Losing a person is way painful, but it also teaches you to learn more.

Accepting the fact that you lost someone is the most difficult part. You lose people within no time, but later it is just you, it takes ages for accepting the fact that you have lost them. Not even in a nightmare did anyone think that their partners are planning to part ways.

Everything seems normal to you before they drop that bomb on you! And you sit there thinking what kind of a joke is this, but it is not. While you think of saving your relation and figuring out different ways of how to improvise or make things work, you already have lost your partner.

Even when the person is gone far away, you still cannot move on from that loss because all you valued and cared was them. You keep doing that until a certain point of time. When we realize that this it and there are no more losses, that is the time when you start looking for things that will make some profits for you.
Losing and gaining is part of life. What really matters is how much have we learnt. The art of losing is nothing but helping someone cope up with the loss is everything! If we have gone through any loss and we know what it takes to cope up. We should always be helpful to those who are dealing with any loss. The more you help, the easier for us to heal. This even applies for your own partners who are not with you now. It is very easy to play the blame game and whine for the loss. But the way we are suffering it is quite possible the other person too is suffering deep down. So, it doesn’t matter how ugly the situation was, Goodbyes don’t have to be uglier. You can always talk and comfort one other and letting them know that you have moved on and so should they.
Life is too short to keep a record of your losses, Pick and dust yourself up and start learning, because only when you learn you will gain something and win over everything. 😊

You know what is the second scandalous thing in our society other than marriages? “Divorce”.

When I say I consider myself Lucky it doesn’t mean that everything went the way I had wished for. I was just lucky enough to take all the opportunities and try to make the best of it.

I am 26, married once and divorced! so how can I possibly be lucky? The answer is simple. I settled too early for very less and it had to hit me back. But it’s very true that only when you are failing you actually explore yourself and look for opportunities.

Divorce is a curse and a blessing. It is up to us if we want to think of it as a curse and kill ourselves by gulping the whole bunch of sleeping pills, or think of it as a blessing and give yourself another chance to become a better human.

Love blinds you to an extent where you can’t even hate that asshole who left you for nothing. Getting a divorce is a stressful process and when you are in love it becomes impossible to believe that you have to let go the one person you loved the most.

It’s quite obvious that one has to blame in that situation and in my situation it was me, so I lived for a long time with a heaviness in my heart that what I have done and am I even good for anything? But it’s not true Divorce is not the end.

A marriage, relationship, your position in your office or even divorce does not give anyone the authority to define the kind of person you are. So if you are divorced and sitting on your couch thinking of how miserable your life is, then just stop thinking. Because whatever miserable was supposed to happen has happened and now only good will be coming in your way.

Hope, Karma and love are the three powerful traits that can help you win the world. Feel lucky about yourself that neither one is dead in the worst scenario. And most importantly, do not let anyone manipulate you. Even if the world is pointing fingers against you, you do what you should do- Believe in yourself and move ahead without keeping any feeling of anger, revenge or regrets. Life has taught me to embrace what has come to you and let go what is not yours and life will teach you more but only you allow yourself to control you and do what is the best for you.

Here’s a quote from a writer who I look up to:
“If you are broken and they have left you do not question whether you were enough, the problem was you were so enough they were not able to carry it”.

So, Ladies, the world is yours and you have another chance to live so look after your parents, talk to them, love them and tell them how much you love them because no matter who leaves you your parents are your biggest support system and they know you better than anyone else. Shop, work, read, jog, write, study, laugh, eat, do anything and everything because we are lucky to have this one beautiful life.