We live in a world where the exceptional is expected and the outstanding is the standard. But what if I told you that expecting constant excellence might not only be unrealistic but also mathematically unsound? Let’s talk about a concept introduced by Dr. Daniel Kahneman in his book “Thinking, Fast and Slow”: Regression to the Mean.

What Is Regression to the Mean?

At its core, ‘regression to the mean’ is a simple statistical concept. It tells us that if a variable is extreme on its first measurement, it will tend to be closer to the average on its second measurement—and, paradoxically, vice versa. Doesn’t sound mind-blowing? Wait till we apply it to real life.

Kahneman’s Eye-Opening Perspective

In “Thinking, Fast and Slow”, Kahneman uses this concept to explain how it affects our daily judgments and decisions. Imagine a sports player having the game of their life. Naturally, you’d expect them to continue this form, right? Wrong. According to regression to the mean, their next game is likely to be closer to their average performance.

The Punishment and Reward Fallacy

This concept significantly challenges how we view reward and punishment. For example, a student who scores exceptionally well in one exam is often praised, but when their next result is just average, the praise turns into questions. Did they not study hard enough? Got overconfident? According to regression to the mean, this fluctuation is not only normal but statistically expected.

How It Affects Our Lives Every Day

We’re constantly, perhaps subconsciously, expecting ourselves and others to be exceptional. This impacts our work lives, our relationships, and our mental health. Understanding regression to the mean can help us set more realistic expectations.

It’s Not All Doom and Gloom

Understanding regression to the mean is liberating. It helps us to appreciate that not every outcome is a direct result of our actions. Sometimes, things just average out, and that’s perfectly okay.

Conclusion: Embrace the Mean

Life isn’t a constant upward trajectory. It’s a mix of highs and lows, averaging out over time. Knowing this, internalizing it, and planning with it in mind is not pessimism—it’s realism. It’s a fact of life: regression to the mean.