I am lucky af!

You know what is the second scandalous thing in our society other than marriages? “Divorce”.

When I say I consider myself Lucky it doesn’t mean that everything went the way I had wished for. I was just lucky enough to take all the opportunities and try to make the best of it.

I am 26, married once and divorced! so how can I possibly be lucky? The answer is simple. I settled too early for very less and it had to hit me back. But it’s very true that only when you are failing you actually explore yourself and look for opportunities.

Divorce is a curse and a blessing. It is up to us if we want to think of it as a curse and kill ourselves by gulping the whole bunch of sleeping pills, or think of it as a blessing and give yourself another chance to become a better human.

Love blinds you to an extent where you can’t even hate that asshole who left you for nothing. Getting a divorce is a stressful process and when you are in love it becomes impossible to believe that you have to let go the one person you loved the most.

It’s quite obvious that one has to blame in that situation and in my situation it was me, so I lived for a long time with a heaviness in my heart that what I have done and am I even good for anything? But it’s not true Divorce is not the end.

A marriage, relationship, your position in your office or even divorce does not give anyone the authority to define the kind of person you are. So if you are divorced and sitting on your couch thinking of how miserable your life is, then just stop thinking. Because whatever miserable was supposed to happen has happened and now only good will be coming in your way.

Hope, Karma and love are the three powerful traits that can help you win the world. Feel lucky about yourself that neither one is dead in the worst scenario. And most importantly, do not let anyone manipulate you. Even if the world is pointing fingers against you, you do what you should do- Believe in yourself and move ahead without keeping any feeling of anger, revenge or regrets. Life has taught me to embrace what has come to you and let go what is not yours and life will teach you more but only you allow yourself to control you and do what is the best for you.

Here’s a quote from a writer who I look up to:
“If you are broken and they have left you do not question whether you were enough, the problem was you were so enough they were not able to carry it”.

So, Ladies, the world is yours and you have another chance to live so look after your parents, talk to them, love them and tell them how much you love them because no matter who leaves you your parents are your biggest support system and they know you better than anyone else. Shop, work, read, jog, write, study, laugh, eat, do anything and everything because we are lucky to have this one beautiful life.